Personal problems often seem to grow like weeds, but they can be pruned back and kept under control when families talk and work together.

Eastern Daily Press: Escape Project co-ordinator Katy Fullilove at the Swaffham allotment with the honey and wild garlic being prepared for the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEYEscape Project co-ordinator Katy Fullilove at the Swaffham allotment with the honey and wild garlic being prepared for the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEY (Image: Archant)

That's the underlying message behind a display garden being prepared for the RHS Chelsea Flower Show at the Escape community allotment at Tumbler Hill in Swaffham.

Saffron Walden-based landscape designer Alistair Bayford is leading the way on the 'Family Monsters'-themed garden, which will become Family Action's entry at the May 21-25 show.

Mr Bayford, 36, said the garden was designed to 'get people talking' about everyday issues families face.

He said: 'We all have a problem, big or small, be it financial issues, health or bereavement. But when we talk about these problems they can be tamed.'

Eastern Daily Press: Escape Project co-ordinator Katy Fullilove at the Swaffham allotment with the honey and wild garlic being prepared for the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEYEscape Project co-ordinator Katy Fullilove at the Swaffham allotment with the honey and wild garlic being prepared for the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEY (Image: Copyright: Archant 2019)

The garden has boulders on the outside, which symbolise family problems, reducing in size to pebbles in the central area, where there's a bench for families to come together.

He said the garden would be asymmetrical because: 'Problems look different from different angles, to different people.'

Mr Bayford said the garden would include pioneer trees including birch and hazel - representing the younger generation - as well as a willow sculpture, which would be one of the garden's main features. There will also be a large, gnarly pine tree to symbolise an older member of a family, showing scars of life.

A mixture of native and non-native plant species will represent the diversity of families in the display, and there will be a clear-water pool, representing reflection.

Eastern Daily Press: Escape Project volunteer, Jason Doré, at the Swaffham allotment with some of the plants being prepared for the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEYEscape Project volunteer, Jason Doré, at the Swaffham allotment with some of the plants being prepared for the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEY (Image: Copyright: Archant 2019)

Mr Bayford said: 'To many people this will just be a garden, but if you start taking it apart, it's apparent there's a lot of symbolism and meaning.

'It also aims to show how important horticulture and gardening can be for health and well-being.'

The Escape team is also involved in creating the garden, which marks the 150 anniversary of Family Action and the 100th anniversary of green service provider Idverde.

Escape itself aims to increase the self-esteem, independence and wellbeing of local people experiencing isolation, or who have disabilities or mental health conditions.

Eastern Daily Press: Karen Bek, Escape Project co-ordinator, and Bob Lever, willow weaver, at work creating an organic boulder from willow for the Family Monsters garden for the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEYKaren Bek, Escape Project co-ordinator, and Bob Lever, willow weaver, at work creating an organic boulder from willow for the Family Monsters garden for the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEY (Image: Copyright: Archant 2019)

To find out more about the Family Monsters project, visit www.familymonstersproject.com

Eastern Daily Press: Participants in the Escape Project paint words on pebbles that sum up everyday pressures that families find difficult to talk about, which will be part of the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. From left, Sarah Green, William Taylor, Gavin Watts, Tricia Thornton, and Sarah Smith. Picture: DENISE BRADLEYParticipants in the Escape Project paint words on pebbles that sum up everyday pressures that families find difficult to talk about, which will be part of the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. From left, Sarah Green, William Taylor, Gavin Watts, Tricia Thornton, and Sarah Smith. Picture: DENISE BRADLEY (Image: Copyright: Archant 2019)

Eastern Daily Press: Words on pebbles painted by participants in the Escape Project that sum up everyday pressures that families find difficult to talk about, which will be part of the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEYWords on pebbles painted by participants in the Escape Project that sum up everyday pressures that families find difficult to talk about, which will be part of the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEY (Image: Copyright: Archant 2019)

Eastern Daily Press: Escape Project participants, staff and volunteers, who are preparing plants at their allotment in Swaffham for the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEYEscape Project participants, staff and volunteers, who are preparing plants at their allotment in Swaffham for the Family Monsters garden at the Chelsea Flower Show. Picture: DENISE BRADLEY (Image: Copyright: Archant 2019)

Eastern Daily Press: Alistair Bayford, garden designer, with Karen Bek, Escape Project co-ordinator, at work creating an organic boulder from willow for the Family Monsters garden for the Chelsea Flower Show at the Escape Project allotment at Swaffham. Picture: DENISE BRADLEYAlistair Bayford, garden designer, with Karen Bek, Escape Project co-ordinator, at work creating an organic boulder from willow for the Family Monsters garden for the Chelsea Flower Show at the Escape Project allotment at Swaffham. Picture: DENISE BRADLEY (Image: Copyright: Archant 2019)

Eastern Daily Press: Alistair Bayford, right, garden designer, with Karen Bek, Escape Project co-ordinator, and Bob Lever, willow weaver, at work creating an organic boulder from willow for the Family Monsters garden for the Chelsea Flower Show at the Escape Project allotment at Swaffham. Picture: DENISE BRADLEYAlistair Bayford, right, garden designer, with Karen Bek, Escape Project co-ordinator, and Bob Lever, willow weaver, at work creating an organic boulder from willow for the Family Monsters garden for the Chelsea Flower Show at the Escape Project allotment at Swaffham. Picture: DENISE BRADLEY (Image: Copyright: Archant 2019)