'The memorial they deserve' - gravestone for tragic teenagers, four years after Thorpe Marshes drowning
PUBLISHED: 12:51 04 May 2019 | UPDATED: 12:51 04 May 2019
Two grieving families finally have a proper place to mourn - four years after their teenagers lost their lives in the waters of Thorpe Marshes, near Norwich.
On August 12 2015, 14-year-old Bonheur Musungay had got into difficulty while swimming 10 metres from the bank at Thorpe Marshes nature reserve.
His cousin Stella Kambi, 17, raced in to save him fully clothed, but both became submerged and drowned.
Now, after a series of setbacks, their families have a place to mourn as a memorial has finally been erected at their grave.
After their deaths, the family was unable to find more than £1,500 for a memorial to mark the grave where the teenagers lie buried side by side in Yarmouth Road cemetery.
A year later, after an appeal, they had raised enough money, but were “let down” by the stonemasons who offered to craft the headstone.
Last month, with the help of a new stonemason firm, a memorial was set in place.
Lesa Bales had read the family's story and organised the fundraising appeal in 2016.
She said: “I would like to offer my sincere apologies to the families of Stella and Bonheur and to all the kind people that donated to the Just Giving page for the delay in this being completed.
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“I was unfortunately let down late last year by the original stonemason after months of chasing for the memorial to be completed.
“Prior to this I had major surgery and suffered my own, tragic family bereavement which meant unfortunately I had to concentrate on other things for many months.”
More than £2,000 had been raised, and Ms Bales said some “residual funds” had been paid against an order for another family in need of a memorial for their child.
Stella and Bonheur's mothers, Flora Mawua and Angele Kasambilo, said their “hearts were moved” when they saw the memorials erected.
“Losing a loved one is never an easy experience but losing two loved ones at the same time was traumatising,” they said.
“Not only were we heartbroken but we had to face the financial difficulties that come with planning a send off our beautiful children deserved.
“We just want to express our most sincere gratitude to each person who supported us in that time of need.
“Our beautiful children are resting in God's eternal peace and their memories are not only being honoured in our hearts but also in remembrance on beautiful memorial stones.”
Ms Bales added: “I would like to give my heartfelt thanks to Paul Miles Stonemasons for stepping in to create this beautiful memorial, without his help I would have been lost.
“These two young people now have the memorial they deserve.”